Serious Question (particularly for women): Is open-mindedness of value in a Democracy...?

Yes in a way I do agree with you because sharing and being open to others views helps us expand our knowledge and understanding; however, having an extremely open mind, will only lead you to being used and and abused by other people, while being too closed minded may perhaps cause unnecessary conflicts amongst family and friends. You'll just have to find a balance that is comfortable for you I guess. Duh! =P