Wednesday, August 17, 2011

A little distraught and very confused over a friend- Please help me?!?

Hey I'm a guy and totally understand what you're going through. I also am looking for longer meaningful relationships and the girl I like tends to fall for other guys pretty easily. Reading through this (yeah I actually read it) it seems clearer to me. You've definitely fallen for him a little inside but you have to decide, honestly just because you like someone doesn't mean you have to date them, even happily married couple are attracted to other people. From what you say I don't know that it would be a particularly great relationship but I don't know either of you so I can't say, but it's okay to like him, just hang out with him once or twice and see if you could really imagine dating him. Love is a hearts thing so of course follow your heart but don't be too impulsive. If he really likes you wait a while until he's through with the other girl ( they're obviously just playin games) and ask him out. I know this doesn't help but just look at it from the outside, would this man be a good husband/father? If so go for it. But whatever you do don't kill those feelings, I know you want to just forget about him but you like him, which is totally alright, and killing your feelings would make it impossible to ever find the right guy. My past relationships have sucked too and I know what it's like to lose a dear friend but what's more important to you with this guy, his love or his friendship?

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