Do you think he's cheating. My husband has been very distant lately. Blames me. I'm not doing things like

he thinks I should be. However he has had scratches on his arms and back that he "doesn't know" they are there. We went out to eat and he was eyeing the hostess every time she came into the room. His eyes never left her. I asked him if he wanted her number and then he played dumb. He also started going to the gym 5 days a week but is working overtime now so he hasn't been doing that. He took our 10 year old to gym with him and he said all his Dad did was talk to women. Unexplained phone numbers on his cell phone. They are unlisted as I have checked. He always has time to talk to other women but when I talk to him he usually leaves the room while I'm midsentenced. Is he cheating and if so how do I get proof?